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Unisex Bathrooms: A Stinky LA Trend.

What do Firefly, Eleven Nightclub and Boulevard3 all have in common?  If you said they're all LA hotspots you'd be correct. They're restaurants, clubs and lounges respectively. But that's not the similarity that I was thinking of.  What really links these places is their unisex bathrooms.  It seems that in LA there is nothing more chic than men and women washing their hands together after emerging from their side-by-side stalls.

Granted the stalls in these bathrooms are similar to walk-in-closets in that the door to them are floor-to-ceiling, they're roomy and, for the most part, no noise or smell can easily emit from them...until you open the door. But the fact is the men and women are still in the same line together, they vie for the same mirror space and sometimes they have to share the same very long sink with a faucet that looks more like a waterfall than anything else.  It's sort of hard to wash your hands well in these waterfalls but it does look cool and apparently that's what's important.

The weirdest part is that in the many LA establishments that have embraced this new trend the bathroom has actually become a hotter pick-up spot than the bar. Bathrooms are very intimate places and when you're standing in line inside their ecru walls waiting to do your business the guy behind you is more likely to start a conversation with you than he would if you were standing next to him ordering a cosmo.  While at a bar they can easily hide behind a cocktail or limit their conversations to only include the friends they came with.  But men don't go to the bathroom in pairs the way women occasionally do and since a unisex bathroom means that guys actually have to wait in line to pee (not an experience they're used to)  they frequently choose to pass the time by talking to a stranger.  The stranger has to be a woman because guy-code says that men can't talk to other men they don't already know in bathrooms. Don't know what that's about but apparently it's a rule.   The ice-breaker these men choose to use on the women in the room is usually (and predictably), "What do you think of these unisex bathrooms?" 

And my answer to that question is, "I'm not into it."  I'm just not all that receptive to being picked up when I'm in desperate need of a toilet.  And if I'm at a bar and I don't like the guy who's chatting me up I can move but if the guy is in line behind me as I wait for a stall to open up...well there's nowhere for me to go now is there? The truth is that when it comes to public bathrooms I like keeping the sexes segregated. If I wanted to fix my make-up in front of a room full of people I'd have done it at my table. Plus I like knowing that if I do want to adjust my bra in front of a mirror I can do it without a mixed audience.  I don't want the guy who has been flirting with me to take note of how long I was in my stall and I certainly don't want to smell what's coming out of his stall when he swings the door open.  Call me a traditionalist but if a guy wants to pick me up in a restaurant/club/lounge he should do it by pushing alcohol on me at the bar and I don't want to share a mirror with him before the third date.  

But with unisex bathrooms popping up in all the best spots in LA it's clear that I am now forced to face a new world order.  

I guess I'll have to start getting salt on the rim of my margaritas so I can increase my water retention.  Going to the bathroom is just a little too stressful these days. 

Kyra Davis

Bestselling Author of:

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5 comments :

  1. azusmomThursday, January 27, 2011 at 3:29:00 PM PST

    Ugh!
    I thought the unisex silhouette showers at Crunch were bad, but this is ridiculous!!!!!!
    Yuck.

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  2. AnonymousWednesday, April 27, 2011 at 12:09:00 PM PDT

    "...The truth is that when it comes to public bathrooms I like keeping the sexes segregated..."

    Same here, and I *like* unisex public bathrooms *when they're single-user* since those are still single-sex (the sex of whoever's using one at the time). No sense having a bunch of women standing in line outside one single-user public bathroom while the other single-user public bathroom next door is empty. No sense in barring an intersex or transsexual person from an empty public bathroom in the name of gender when she or he is going to be the only person in there until she or he leaves it. But *taking away* the single-sex option?! o_O

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  3. Twin Cities janitorialSunday, August 5, 2012 at 11:36:00 PM PDT

    Men and women do not have the same bathroom routines, so how would one be able to do his/her personal rituals when the other gender is waiting behind the line? I do believe that most people have not yet been able to get used to this practice, while others totally do not want to, so I think it is best to just keep it the usual way of having separate bathrooms. After all, bathrooms were made for private use.

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  4. cleaning companies PhoenixThursday, November 1, 2012 at 5:58:00 PM PDT

    Indeed, such practice is becoming common in certain areas. However, a bathroom is for private use and it will be better to keep it that way by separating women’s from that of men’s. Thank you for sharing this post.

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  5. AnonymousMonday, May 27, 2013 at 4:18:00 AM PDT

    There is no more need for segregated male/female bathrooms than separate bathrooms for blacks and whites. Since women are already using men's rooms, wha's to keep men out of the ladies' rooms -- the crowd of women staring in the mirrors? If women had learnt to be as fast as men, dears, ladies wouldn't have brought this inarticulate argument on themselves -- but I'm sure women have the solution.

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ABOUT KYRA DAVIS

I'm the internationally published author of the Sophie Katz mystery series, and So Much For My Happy Ending. My first Erotic Fiction Trilogy will be released in January 2013.

Aside from that, I'm a single mom; I'm addicted to coffee and True Blood (the show, not the drink). I'm happy with who I am yet I’m always striving to be better; I have more bad hair days than good ones, I love a challenge but I am not fearless, I’m….well…just me.

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