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Can You Judge A Reader By Their Book?

So as I mentioned in my blog a few days ago, I am now easing my way back into the dating scene. This last week I met a date at a local restaurant. I arrived prepared, wearing my smile, heels and invisible bullshit detector. I was sure that the combination would enable me to catch and lob back any curve balls he might throw my way. As is always the case on my dates with new men the conversation turned to books (oddly enough I’m never the one to bring this topic up).  After asking me a little about my own work and then admitting that he read nonfiction almost exclusively, the man I was dining with explained his theory that you could tell a lot about a person based on what kind of books they read.  “For instance,” he said, “what book is on your nightstand right now?”

Uh-oh.

It’s not that I didn’t have a book on my nightstand and I certainly hadn’t forgotten the title or the author. I am currently reading Jennifer Weiner’s Fly Away Home. I’m really enjoying the book and I’m finding it hard to put down...but do I want to be defined by it? That doesn’t seem fair at all!  As much as I love Weiner why does she get to define me? If any book is going to define me shouldn’t it be one of my own?!

Of course that was part of the problem.  All Mr. Nonfiction knew about my relationship with the literary world was that I wrote novels with titles like Vows, Vendettas & A Little Black Dress and now he would know that I was spending my late evenings and early mornings reading a book that he would inevitably dismiss as fluffy chick-lit. Of course Weiner’s books, while fun and highly humorous, aren’t exactly fluffy. They deal with relationships, women’s roles in society and finding one's place in the world without bending to the force of others' unrealistic expectations.  But how on earth could I say all that without sounding absurdly defensive. It was, after all, possible, even probable that he didn’t think the question: “What are you reading?” was incredibly loaded and it was definitely probable that he would think I was crazy for thinking that it was! And it was very, very probable that his conclusions about the state of my sanity would be completely on target!

But then I realized that the question and the entire premise of his theory would be more sound if you were going draw conclusions about a person based on the last FIVE books they’ve read. If that had been his question I could have said, “I’m currently reading Jennifer Weiner’s Fly Away Home. Before that I read James Gleick’s Chaos (a nonfiction book about the development of Chaos theory), Toby Barlow’s Sharp Teeth (gritty and poetic novel about werewolves), Alison Weir’s The Lady In The Tower (a nonfiction account of the fall of Anne Boleyn), and re-read David Sedaris’ Me Talk Pretty One Day (because Sedaris’ essays, while frequently poignant, always make me laugh out loud).

Weiner, Gleick, Barlow, Weir and Sedaris with my own books sprinkled in like little punctuation marks. Yes, you probably could at least partially define me by that combination. Fantasy, humor, feminine introspection, a small dose of neurosis, a bit of scandalous history, a little fluff and a little intellectualism (or, you could combine the last two qualities and say I’m into fluffy intellectualism).  Unlike my date, it would never occur to me to only read nonfiction anymore than it would occur to me to only read fiction and certainly not one genre of fiction. Perhaps that’s why certain...well for lack of a better word, book snobs are so dismissive and derisive of books like mine or Weiner’s.  Could it be that they don’t know how to mix it up? Are they like the wine connoisseurs who wax poetic about the $200 bottle of reserve Cabernet they consumed with last night’s dinner without ever being able to appreciate the truly refreshing quality of a $3 beer on a hot summer day?

Maybe.

Anyway, I decided to give my date the name of the last five books I had read even though that’s not what he asked for.  If you’re going to draw a conclusion about a person it seems to me that you should be able to consider as much evidence as possible.

In other words, you can’t judge me by the book on my nightstand UNLESS you add it to everything else on my bookshelf.

Kyra Davis

Bestselling Author of:

The Sophie Katz Mystery Series
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So Much For My Happy Ending
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5 comments :

  1. BeccaThursday, August 12, 2010 at 4:18:00 PM PDT

    If someone were to ask me what I was reading at any given time, I would be able to show them my Sony reader and my iPhone and all the different types of books on there. I think I would daze and confuse most. I know that I do my husband, 10 years later!

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  2. AnonymousThursday, August 12, 2010 at 9:04:00 PM PDT

    Ha ha. I'd like to know how I'd be defined by the book I'm reading at any given moment. Tonight it's "Highland Rogue, London Miss" by Marget Moore and tomorrow it could be "The Bodyguard" by Gena Showalter, Lorie O'Claire & Cherry Adair. And of course I'm always reading a few entries in the book "The Lost Diary of Marie Antoinette.} {did I spell her name wrong?} Not to forget the smut I keep on my shelf.

    Anyways, so, other than that question, did you have fun on your date? Was he cute? Do you see another date in the future with him?

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  3. kyradavisFriday, August 13, 2010 at 9:50:00 AM PDT

    @ Becca: Another great reason to own an e-reader! Love it! : )
    @ Jessica: It was a nice date. I'm not sure if there's a "future." We'll have to see. But regardless of how this turns out in the end I DO think there will be some fun along the way : P

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  4. AnonymousFriday, August 13, 2010 at 1:57:00 PM PDT

    Lord that would be a loaded question in my mind lol, I read a lot of different types of books and more often than not reading 2-3 books at the same time.

    I had a kindle but it got stolen, but I have all my books on my laptop. Im just saving up so I can get the newest kindle (drooling lol) Can't wait :)

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  5. kyradavisSaturday, August 14, 2010 at 1:36:00 AM PDT

    Yes, you must get the new Kindle! That way if someone ever asks you that particular loaded question you'll be able to whip out your Kindle and let the asker sort it out for himself. A little harder to do that with a laptop ;)

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ABOUT KYRA DAVIS

I'm the internationally published author of the Sophie Katz mystery series, and So Much For My Happy Ending. My first Erotic Fiction Trilogy will be released in January 2013.

Aside from that, I'm a single mom; I'm addicted to coffee and True Blood (the show, not the drink). I'm happy with who I am yet I’m always striving to be better; I have more bad hair days than good ones, I love a challenge but I am not fearless, I’m….well…just me.

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